Sometimes I wonder how and where gender roles derived. A woman is like… an 8th wonder of the world. She can transform herself into whatever person is needed at that time: mom, dad…Incredible Hulk. With that being said, look within yourself to see the validity you bring; the awesomeness, the stamina, the ability to snap back from whatever ailments that were ever placed upon you. And in the meantime, always feel that you deserve nothing but the best. Perfection is in the eye of the beholder and if you see it, him, her, or life as anything less, then what does that say about you? Because the truth is, you are the Captain of the ship you sail.

There are different aspects of life where you can situate a placement of this feeling, being empowered. The question I’m asking is do you feel your relationship (if you are in one or trying to be in one) showcases your empowerment? Now that we have worked on losing baggage (filled with past knuckleheads) that may have been weighing us down, building our self-esteem (all over again), and getting RE-motivated, we can move forward with knowing how to obtain the the things we would like to have in our lives. Because clearly, all we really need is a good head on our shoulders to achieve a graceful and successful womanhood, strategizing the in and outs, and overcoming obstacles. Choosing to be with someone says everything about your judgement of character. So we should be choosing someone who brings out the best in us, that better showcases the true liveliness we are capable of bringing.
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