I’m a freak romantic! I like all the surprising and the mushy-gushy good *ish that people, in love, do. Or at least the stuff we see on TV. However, regardless of the factor of love, being in love, or just dating, there are still things that can be done in order to spice things up on your end. Why settle for boring? And ladies, I don’t want to hear that nonsense about “good girls” don’t give up the good goods so soon or it’s the man’s job (what is that anyways?) to take control. If you feel like being spontaneous for a night, then be it. Happiness or being fulfilled doesn’t involve a lot of thinking. No one knows you better than you do. So let’s just do away with the normal roses and candles and add some spice to our life.

SN: Here on the country-side, it’s really easy to find outdoor-sexy types of things. I understand that most of my audience caters to a great portion of northerners; however I think we can still possibly fit you in here somewhere. Nevertheless, we’ll begin with:

Public Displays of Affection

For starters…let’s go fishing and picnic afterwards. Wait a minute, don’t knock it just yet! Picnics are awesome!! LOL!! In the sense that you have brought all the delightful sexy foods that will help gas up your libido for a long ride. Fill up on aphrodisiacs to set the mood and good conversation about the fact that these foods are supposed to make you horny, lol. A few of my favorites: chocolate (yes!!), bananas, asparagus, and come up with a main course full of garlic. Yes people! Garlic. Be sure to pack the mints and please, please, please don’t forget the wine. Preferably Columbia Grand Estates Merlot.

If that doesn’t float your boat, let’s head out to the shooting range to prep us for a night of cops and sexy robber role-playing (be sure to leave the real guns at the range). Horseback riding on a nature trail to get your groins in gear or maybe rev up the ATV’s to kick up some dirty dancing. I don’t know about you, but I’m a sucker for a good breeze with a few pumps of adrenaline mix and a splash of dirt. Just a splash, lol. After all this rush of excitement, you’ll be ready to head back to the house for a hot bath for two.

Best Selling Author

I found that it is really easy to create a book. Publishing might be different; however, I don’t think we would be putting this book on the shelves. Here, we are going to create our very own magazine or picture book of ourselves to give to our partners (lulu.com is a good start). Yes hunnies, awesome-ness!! No need to get your panties in a bunch because your man has an eye for Meagan Good. Doll yourself up (and I do mean the works) and set up a real photo shoot to be the eye candy that your man will love to lay his eyes on. I know this can turn out to be pretty expensive and I’m a nut for frugalness, so if you want to go a cheaper route and your creative juices flow as freely as the juices from your juice box, go with scrapbooking. It will still get the job done. They’re men! They are only going to look at the pictures anyway Hugh Heffner has nothing on me! This one was not really a date, but it’s an awesome gift. We’ll give it to him on date night, then.

Practice Makes Perfect

You can’t be a blogger without being a reader. And one thing that makes a good blogger is being “in-the-know” about the bits and pieces of everything going on in the world. So let’s begin our date by reading up on different sexual practices AND actually put them to work. Awww come on!! It will be fun! This will make for an awesome date night. If you are ashamed to go to a store and purchase the books, although sometimes they come with little nifty gift sets, there is always Google, lol! Just pick one. We have Kama Sutra, Ratirahasya, Tantra….and Pornos, for those of you visionary learners!!! LMAO!!! Also people, when doing something so erotic such as this, I’ll give you the okay on the candles and rose petals. It’s only good to bring out the normal stuff when you are doing something so nasty!

Investing

Good investments can make for a long-lasting relationship if that is the goal you are trying to achieve. Costumes, toys, pole dancing classes…a pole!! lol! So let’s play! Not much detail needs to go into this idea. But I do recommend you read the directions on every box of any toy that you may purchase. This particular date night can head straight into a night of despair if you don’t know how to use your tools accordingly. Costumes are meant for acting/role-playing. You can be anything that you want to be (or anything that he wants you to be) but whatever you do, don’t be yourself. That kinda defeats the whole purpose. And last but not least, that pole-dancing class is necessary before hopping on any pole. Trust me when I say, it is not as easy as it looks.

Go Green Nude

If you are going for the sexually liberated couple who loves to partake in the ecosystem, then why not do just that. Let’s Reduce the usage of the bedroom, Reuse the energy that we store from not seeing one another all week and Recycle these memories to share at a later date with one another on a more laid back date night. Ha Ha! Get it?! OK, it was corny. Moving along, on this date, write out a list of places to go mark your territory. Oh the choices! We could begin by settling for a beach scene, which is usually a good start. But please be aware that sand particles have a mind of their own. Or we could just keep it local and go “live” on the nature trail after taking a break from horseback riding. Maybe the picnic spot was a really secluded area, and you discovered that those aphrodisiacs really do work. Who knew?! lol! Oooorrrr, we could just get it poppin’ on the ATV! I suggest wide-open empty fields, far, far from the roads.

Alright, I think that’s enough frisky business to get your minds wandering and your loins aching. Let me know how it goes!!

Up 4 Discussion…

1) What are some sizzling and/or sexy ways that you spice up your relationship during the summer?

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Candi

No specifics. Just me. Just common sense.

 

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